I’m a Tauranga-based marriage and funeral celebrant, and this space is where I share the things I’ve learned along the way. From ceremony trends I’m seeing, to practical advice, vendor insights, and ideas that help make ceremonies more meaningful, this blog is here to support you — whether you’re planning a wedding, a farewell, or something in between.
Writing your vows
Did you know that it's the marriage vows that actually marry you? All the rest of the ceremony is optional. In fact, you could stand in front of your two witnesses and me and simply say, "I (full name) take you (full name) to be my husband/wife/partner" and you'd be married! Sign the papers and off you go. That's the legal minimum.
Fortunately, people want more than that, whether it's a Registry wedding, elopement or full personalised wedding.